Well, the Saturday plans just got simpler. The "encounter" thing isn't going to work. I dropped the ball in a couple of ways, including missing a note that someone sent me alerting me that the scheme might not sit that well with the bride and/or the bride's best friend. Ooooops.... I'd already talked to the bride about some other aspects, such as getting chili for the groom provided he didn't come home right away (while still aromatic from digesting dinner), and ground rules for the rest of the day's entertainment.
It's possible that one or two of the ladies we know will rendezvous with us to share a bite to eat or a beer, but we're not going to do the saucy schtick.
Oh well. There's still plenty for us to do (and it's not all sitting in a darkened room watching the dancers gyrate, either).